Sunday, June 18, 2006
Friends
Do you ever wonder if you are putting enough into a friendship? Do you ever feel like you are putting so much into a friendship but the other person isn't? How do you break up with a friend?

When I was little I thought the friends I had would be my friends for life.... boy was I wrong. When you getting older, get married, start a family and all that stuff the people you thought were your friends turn out not to be. My interests have changed. I don't have time to deal with "drama" or "self-centeredness."

I never thought my best friend would be a boy, when I was little boys were gross. I am so glad Michael is now my best friend. The only drama we have is whose turn it is to wash the laundry.

Enough Said.


3 Comments:

Blogger Unknown said...

Big changes in life...from moving to getting married...really do bring into focus the friends you can always count on. It does hurt when you find out someone isn't a forever friend, but then again not all friends are meant to be friends for life. Thanks for only being a phone call or an email away. I'm so glad you're married to your best friend! I can tell you're really happy with Michael.

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I really began to notice changes over the years about friends. Especially moving around alot and know many people can relate to that. I thought once I had moved somewhere and stayed long enough all of that would change. Seems is just takes longer sometimes.

Thanks to you, Jamie, for being a great friend. Thanks for talking to me when I need to vent and for calling me when you just want to hang out or find out how things are going.

I hope I am better at keeping in touch via the phone or email once I move to Missouri. I know its going to get lonely there sometimes and it will be nice to know you are there to talk to and feel not so lonely again.

I am glad Michael is your best friend and your husband. You two are perfect for each other. You guys share so much love and I know when you have kids they will be loved just as much.

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

In talking to Mom about "Mr. Right" she has always said that when you do find him, he becomes your lover, best friend, confidant, partner, and the one you find you can't live without. I believe this is so, especially looking at you and Michael and now Heather and Mark. And with everything that we have to do in life, it gets harder and harder to find time with your friends, especially after marriage, or so I have noticed. It’s not that that’s a bad thing, because that is the person you love and have pledged your life too. And when you’re newlyweds, it’s especially so, because it’s new. You’re young, you’re in love, and being with that person is your life. So no, you should deal with drama anymore. You shouldn’t have had to deal with it to begin with. And I’m just sorry that I haven’t had time to call. But I have every plan to change this, especially when I get back home. If it hadn’t been for you, Heather and Amber, there would have been many times that I would have felt utterly alone and I thank you for being such a wonderful friend. And I am so happy that you have found your best friend. You and Michael seem absolutely perfect for each other and I'm glad to see you so happy. And tell him he should have to wash his own underwear, that's just nastiness. :)

 

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